Each and every relationship in a family carries a different meaning in our every day life. Giving enough time is the most important way by which you can maintain freshness in your relationships with family members.
Time management also helps you to create a strong bonding between you and your family. Therefore, the basic rule behind a happy family life and healthy relationship with the family members are the ways you spend some of your quality time with them.
But, sometimes and for some people, it becomes impossible to spend quality time with their family members due to busy and tied up work schedule, never ending family responsibilities and different other unavoidable circumstances and responsibilities.
In today’s world where there is already a great shortage of time, it is really a tough job for any one to manage the ‘most required surplus’ time from their busy schedule. Though women cannot be left behind, but men are the most sufferers of this problem.
You might be also among some of them who feel guilty about not being able to give enough time to your relations in life but cannot do much about it in spite of wishing to do. Hence, discussed here are some best tips by which you can spend quality time with your family members in the most enjoying way.
Tip no. 1
The common scenario of a family is that all of the family members are very busy with their own work throughout the day. Consequently, it is not possible to spend quality time with your family during the day. Even, most of the times you can find most of your family members are absent during the day.
Evening is the most ideal time for spending time with the family. This is the most convenient time you will see all your family members returning back home from their works. You must plan and try to spend more and more time with your family after they return back to home.
You should try to communicate with each and every family member individually and aim to erase out the crisis that has resulted due to your long absence. Try to solve those problems in a cool way.
Tip no. 2
Capitalize your dinner time as the best opportunity to catch up with your entire family. You must try to dine together, with all of them during the dinner time, in a relaxed mood. You can also be a bit innovative by making some special dishes during the dinner time for at least one or two days in a week and surprise your better half and your kids. You must aim to make the atmosphere during the dinner time light by not focusing on grave topics.
Tip no. 3
You can prepare a layout of a tour plan during the weekend or vacation with all the members of your family. Invite everyone’s suggestions in place selection, the availability of holidays and other matters.
Tip no. 4
If you are facing any sort of critical problem at work place or inside of your home, then you can consult with your family members and take their suggestion on this matter. Though finally you can rethink on all the suggestion and pick up the best one and sort out the problem accordingly.
Tip no. 5
You can take special attention towards your kid too. You must listen to their problems and try to solve them. You can tell them some funny story and also try to know about their daily activities, study, hobbies and how do they spend their time in the school. In this way you can interact with your kids too, who might miss you the most.
Tip no. 6
Holiday is most vital day for every working parent. It is the great opportunity for you to spend quality time with your family. You can wake up from the bed in a relaxed mood, unlike every working day.
You may try to spend some time with your dearest ones and interact with each other and try to share all the sorrows or happy moments of the morning and the whole week you were absent. You can spend some time with your kids and play with them.
Tip no. 7
Once in a while, when in a holiday or weekend, you can assist your wife in doing some domestic work. You may go shopping with your family during the after noon. Though you might not like it, but there can be nothing more important than your family’s demands.
Tip no. 8
If you and your wife are interested to see movies, then you can surprise her by taking her to the movie in the evening of your weekend or on a working day when you do not have much work. You can also give her some surprise treat together with the movie by giving a surprise dinner-out too.
Tip no. 10
You must try to go to a long vacation with all of your family members, at least once in a year. These types of family vacations are most important for every family member as they wipe out the tiredness of boring, routine life. You can get fresh energy back after a long holiday from work.
It also helps you to increase your interest towards work or your daily life routine by recharging you and your family. Besides this, you can spend some time with your family too, leaving behind work totally.
Tip no. 11
You must try to celebrate and take part in family occasions like your marriage anniversary or birthday of your wife or kids or any other family members, like your parents too.
You may surprise all by throwing a small party at your home in the evening. You can arrange good dishes of the preference of the person who is the center of attraction of the celebration, along with a celebration cake of course. You may also invite your close relatives, family friends and enjoy the evening in a great way.
A soothing music and heart melting music if it’s your wife’s day or some fun games if it is the birthday of your kid will add extra color to your surprise party.