You have got yourself a date – it means you have achieved half of the challenge; this should boost up enough confidence in you to meet the next half. Before you meet her, when you are alone be deliriously happy, clap your hands, and stand on your head – anything lovingly crazy to express the feeling of joy. You know you cannot possibly do all this in her presence – she might think you have gone bonkers.
Coming to slightly serious preparations for the big day, you would do well to check a few things about yourself. Yes, that is right; remember the first date with the girl of your dreams should set the trend for the future. Be practical and analyze the following points, the tips may come in handy at the right moment.
Dating Advice And Tips
Advice is a strong word; taking heed of some experienced advice is stronger – so please pay attention.Make a list of all your bad habits – don’t get me wrong, we all have some. You may have the habit of snapping your fingers, or slapping your friends on their back while talking, interrupting others more often than not, having your say, leaving no room for the other party to have a final say etc etc.
If it is a yes to any one of these or something else, think whether you can stop that habit for the time that you will be with her? If you are really looking forward to this date you should be able to control all your idiosyncrasies.
Personal hygiene counts a lot with almost all women of taste and style. So if you need a haircut please get it done, keep your finger nails clean and well-cut (masculine hands are attractive, so a manicure is not necessary), a regular bath and shave is a must. The key words are to look fresh, clean and stylish for that special girl. She will be impressed with the trouble you take to present yourself for the date, believe me.
Be natural in your behavior; do not try to impress her unduly – you will be caught. So choose your clothes wisely – le them not be too gaudy and splashy, neither you must be clothed in drab and plain garb. If your date is in the evening choose a color of shirt that enhances your looks and match it with the right pair trousers and shoes beforehand. Daytime date may require more casual clothes, but you can always add some spice to the occasion, in your individual way.
Do not wear overpowering after shave – leave room to savor your girl’s perfume. Do not keep her waiting, be there before time. After the first greeting, try to incorporate a compliment about her looks or dress or perfume in your conversation. You will be rewarded with a look of appreciation in those pretty eyes.
Even if it is café and not a restaurant, please be chivalrous, sit after she sits down. Girls and women adore chivalry, this is a secret. Take note of her likes before you order. Keep the conversation positive and listen more than you talk, you are sure to win her heart. Be warm in your own way and show how much you hold this meeting dear.
Make it clear you look forward to seeing more of her in the near future, but please do not be too eager. Let her set the next date. Finally, make sure you drop her at her desired place and bid a goodbye proper to the occasion. Do not rush, be honest and sincere in your thoughts and actions – you will be successful