Take the reins of life in your own hands. There is another destiny waiting for you outside. There is another interesting tale to be unfolded by you today. You have realized the potential of your mind and nothing can stop you now from achieving what is only meant for you.
The only missing part earlier was that you waited for the opportunity to be presented along the way far too long. The results are in front as you have started treating life as the gateway to seamless opportunities. Instead of choosing specific moments as opportunities, you have started using the present moment as a tool to start fulfilling your dreams.
The same goes true in the case of life. Anybody can turn his life around by following few crucial steps.
1. Your Presence Here Defines The Purpose:
This is the key point and the whole feel good factor should be based on it. You are here and nothing else defines your purpose better than this. It is difficult to find the true meaning when you cannot see yourself doing something really meaningful in this life. You start looking at yourself from the perspective of somebody who is standing outside and monitoring the situation based on the results achieved and performance shown.
This ‘other’ person who is standing outside is a mere reflection of your own vision and standards set for yourself without even thinking that if this is what you want for yourself. If this is what would turn you happy?
This serves as the first warning that you need not to look at yourself from a distance. This is the purpose which defines your presence in life. This shall be taken as an awakening by all those who are looking to turn their life around for better. You must connect with the inner-being first.
2. Feeling Better As You Move Forward:
Once you start moving away from the shadows of living under the identity of a farcical character, it would immensely help you to re-discover and re-construct. There is nothing wrong about ‘being living in the past or mistakes made earlier’ except you would only find yourself to be a guilty person standing there because you have not moved on all these years.
While you move ahead, there is a strong sense of belief and courage prevailing around. It shows that you are willing to accept the responsibility without falling to the aftermath of decisions taken earlier. There is something more powerful, an undeniable urge not to give-up on the opportunity of moving forward to the present life.
At times, we stop growing or moving forward as a person because we think that the whole changed atmosphere would prove to be an uncharted territory. We start looking towards the approaching ‘present time’ as something which has only emerged due to our wrong deeds. We treat present as a punishment for the mistakes made in the past. This is the usual definition that why most of us fear the idea of moving to the present. They do not want to confront the demon. Now, they find it comfortable to keep on living in the past.
You should be telling yourself ten times or ten thousand times a day: Move to the present. Shift to the present!
This is the same reason that we are at war with ourselves. You should start feeling better because you have taken the responsibility of standing for something substantial which is bigger than your own projection of life. Your efforts alone shall be worthy of releasing the past and uplifting your soul to sanity.
3. Benefitting From The Present State of Mind:
You can turn your life around by benefitting from the present state of mind. The realization phase has just transformed you into a better thinking and acting individual. You must stay committed to the cause now.
Another important technique suggests that you should not keep any feelings of hatred towards anything or anybody in person. You would only be able to survive these changes by moving forward with a sense of doing justice to the opportunity provided.
The time-limit of recovery phase is dependent on the nature of actions taken. There is no such other reason as doing it for the sake of oneself. You should make a promise that whatever it was, it has got over now. You should come out of the difficult phase as you owe it to the trust and faith shown in you.
4. Start Developing a New Perspective, a New Outlook:
This is one activity which you need not to devote a lot of time on. A new perspective would soon start developing on its own. You responsibility as the principle owner is to make sure that the new ideology is well-practiced in everyday life around. You should start utilizing all the positive energy to spread the good feelings around.
This would enrich your experience as a living human being. The new perspective is a by-product of the efforts or prayers made to turn your life around and by making others benefit from your knowledge and gained experienced, you have made sure that these thoughts would manifest here for long.
5. Living Life as a Rare Gift to Be Ever Given Again:
The whole purpose was to re-energize the inner-being or soul, as you call it. The good part is that everybody can turn the tide and start living in the best possible manner. You should not take failures or disappointments as unsuccessful attempts. This causes an irreparable damage.
The only thing needed for survival is self-belief, self-esteem. The end results do not match the potential or efforts put into it sometimes. This should not stop you from celebrating the ‘little victory’ scored over here. This is just to show that dedication and perseverance accounts for much bigger things in life, to follow next. Life has always been a precious gift and this time around we have learnt it the hardest way.
You need to have the courage of a tough warrior to say ‘Good-bye’ to the days gone by.
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